• How to FREE yourself from the never ending quest to “be better” and “look better” and why it’s just lining other people’s pockets
• The history lesson you NEED to understand how “Twiggy” impacts us today
• How to take a stand against the outrageous Diet Industry BS we are relentlessly bombarded with
Have you ever noticed how it’s like so not politically correct to call someone fat or call yourself fat?
That’s because there’s this underlying stigma that being fat means that you’re lazy, stupid, ignorant, less worthy of a person – and the idea that being slim is also associated with being popular, attractive, right and successful.
But what would you say to me if I told you that you are a bad person because you’re not a good cook, because you don’t get the dinner on the table by 5:00, because you don’t spray feminine hygiene products like Lysol on your hooha for your husband’s pleasure? Basically that you’re a bad person or a less valuable person because you’re a woman and men are better than women.
You will tell me where to go, won’t you? You would actually laugh in my face.
But, you see, that is actually the media messages that our mothers were bombarded and our grandmothers were bombarded with in the 1950s, where the admin back then said that a woman’s only worth is either bringing up children or doing the housework.
Okay, so I’m going to give you a bit of a history lesson.
What happened is, after the war, women had to go out to work and they’re suddenly getting skilled and suddenly getting more confident – and they end up walking out of their homes in droves.
Women started this revolution where we liked being appreciated for what we could do as opposed to just being a mother and a wife.
The suffragettes campaigned for the votes and women being outspoken, women became somebody who mattered and had an influence in the world outside the home.
So it’s no coincidence than in the 1960s and ‘70s, the ideal body for a woman changed from being modest and curvy and feminine to being waif-like, Twiggy-esque, where the ideal woman was cowered down and frail-looking. And women who spoke up for themselves, feminists, were portrayed as fat, angry, man-hating, hairy armpits showing, lesbians.
What happened was that the economy no longer was propped up by these women wanting to be a domestic goddess at home and, basically, the economy had to focus all of its attention in the one remaining button they could push – and that was beauty.
And that is the idea that there is a near standard physical perfection for women to achieve. But the thing is that there is none for men and it’s also decided through the eyes of men as well.
You could see that in play when you see a newsreader, an anchorman, who is balding, with the glasses, and grey, and he’s got a paunch belly – but he’s flanked by these beautiful, young, gorgeous women on either side of him, who need to be not only gorgeous but smart and perform in their jobs, and young, and keep that appearance up the whole time.
So there’s no equivalent standard of near physical perfection for men.
And that’s where all this economic manipulation has been directed to push our buttons. just in the area of beauty.
So the deadly defeating sin I’m talking to you about today is the idea that the way you look on the outside reflects how good of a person you are on the inside.
And just the way that you scoff at the 1950s sexist ads, you should be scoffing at that idea as well. You should be bringing that up to surface and see how that’s manipulating you into feeling like you’re fat is making you less of a person.
Take a stand, refuse to be one of the statistics, and refuse to be manipulated by other people’s idea of how you should look and instead create your own idea of how you should look.
Wake up! Wake up to yourself and smell the roses – because a life spent wishing you were looking like somebody else, rejecting the body that you already have, is a life wasted.
And you, my beautiful soul, are far too gorgeous to spend the rest of your days hating this gorgeous body that you’re living in.
For anyone considering working with Bianca – it’s a real privilege to get Bianca’s brain and energy in your business. There’s a real level of detail and depth of mastery to her work that not many people have. The nuances of energy are so important, because if we’re not aligned, we’ll sabotage ourselves and not make the sales we can.
Even teaching mindset myself, I can’t see my on blind spots, and I loved working with Bianca who is really strong in her own work, who didn’t put me on a pedestal but could really hold space for me and keep me accountable. There was a time that I did have massive anxiety because I was trying to be the strong one for everyone else. But nobody was doing that for me and so, I just fell apart after a while. You can be strong and still need support – that’s how we thrive.
The way Bianca has amalgamated everything is just an incredible, magical process, it was really intriguing for me. The breakthroughs just keep coming – to experience her method, her intuition, it really is the magic of it – she really sees you.
You can move through the stuff, the trauma, without being retraumatised
Every time I work with Bianca I have made more money, I have freed up my life a lot more, I have bought more time back and I’ve deepened my relationships.
What I’ve achieved since is beyond what I had ever imagined. I entered into a new industry and built a multiple 7 figure business in the first 3 months, opened a second office within 6 months and within 1 year we’re at 8 figures.
If you’re thinking about working with Bianca I 200% recommend it.
I was looking for somebody who encouraged me to charge my worth, believe in that work and not be afraid of what I am worth. Many people look at my life and think I had already achieved a lot, but I wanted to expand and grow, and aside from my very supportive husband, I have found it difficult to find people who push me to be better than I am.
Bianca really held me accountable to my vision and helped me branch out from my property software consulting business into coaching. I went from $110/hour sessions to selling over $50,000 in programs within 8 weeks. It was the ease at which it happened that was the best part – I kept accidentally selling people!
12 months after working with Bianca I am booked out 4 weeks in advance. I’m about to hire 12 – 15 staff and I am on a rapid rise to 100k a month. I don’t think I would have gotten here this quickly if it weren’t for Bianca’s support, emotional clearing techniques and big picture questioning. Bianca held me to a higher vision than I had for myself and I’m thrilled with what I’ve achieved
Confidence. Certainty. Courage. Cashflow …
Bianca is the Queen at helping you create all of these (and fast, there’s no f’ing around).
Before working with Bianca I was super stressed and thought it was too hard and I didn’t have time to be successful AND have a healthy life balance. But I was surprised at how quickly the shifts happened. It’s been no coincidence to me that as a result of the new clarity of mind, I’ve actually doubled my business at the same time.